Picnics
Bring a blanket, bring snacks, bring your best park energy.
Real Girlfriends of San Francisco
Free IRL gatherings for women in San Francisco.
Low-key plans, good conversations, and new friendships.
Start with a plan. Let friendship build.
See the vibe
What we do
Low-key plans that make it easier to say yes.
A very cute reason to touch grass.
Making friends as an adult should be simple. Real Girlfriends brings women together through free IRL gatherings around San Francisco.
Easy plans, Bay Area air, good conversations, and room for friendship to grow naturally.
Walks
Foggy neighborhood loops, hidden stairways, and beautiful views.
Coffee meetups
A quick hello before work, after errands, or between city plans.
Tea afternoons
Thoughtful conversations and slower city afternoons.
How it works
Join the Luma, pick a gathering, show up when it sounds fun.
About your host
Hi, I'm Juliet.
I started Real Girlfriends because meeting good people should feel easier than it usually does.
offline, welcoming, grounded in actual plans
Why this exists
When I was studying computer science at USF in 2011, an old Meetup group helped me make amazing friends outside of class.
Real Girlfriends is inspired by that feeling: simple plans, familiar faces, and friendships that have room to grow naturally.
Luma
Find the next gathering on Luma.
Add your name, see upcoming plans, and come to the one that feels right.
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